My counsellor believes that the teenager we are now is caused by the hurt child we were. Today he would give me questions/statements to write out with my right hand that I’d have to answer in my left hand. It gave the effect that your teenage self was asking the question and your child self was answering them. It felt as though you were talking to two different people. The last statement was “let me look after you so we can take care of one another. If you don’t let me we’re both going to fall”, the child replied “who said you didn’t want that”.